Because of the lack of breast-feeding in childhood, when Zhang Xueqi was a child, our couple regularly pounded fruit puree and mixed milk and oatmeal paste for him, even if we neglected nutrition one day, which delayed the sequelae of his weak body.This habit of working as a nanny by turns has formed a unique "biological clock" in our family. Over a long period of time, a system of "regular meals" has been formed.In eating and drinking nutrition let him form a "point to point" consciousness - early, middle and dinner do not rush, he naturally knows to the table.It's easy to do this. Adults should first have a sense of self-consciousness.Adults have a strong sense of arrival. Follow the modern rhythm. Children can eat three meals a day without delay.We have to do a "homework" every day for years. We have a fruit in the morning and a glass of milk in the afternoon. When it's time, we'll prepare it for him. There.As for when Zhang Xueqi will finish consuming fruit and milk, it's his own business. It doesn't matter if we don't remind or urge him to nibble an apple absently and slowly. Zhang Xueqi has never had the situation that "change is faster than plan". He has formed a point-to-point consciousness like the two of us, and the rhythm of the super stable biological clock in our parents' period. Cultivation, it can be said, has something to do with it - the intensity of his point-to-point consciousness is very obvious to this day.It's the same when I went to university. When I took the train from Langfang to Tianjin, he always insisted on my father to catch up sooner or later for fear of delay.When it comes to the check-in, he's always shouting "Come on, line up!" I thought to myself: what's the matter with a slower ticket cutting?There are so many seats over the train. This silly child is just so in a hurry! But I think again: if he didn't form this kind of thinking mode of "catching up" and "arriving", would he still be able to go to university in Tianjin today?Perhaps in which primary school of Panjin is learning four operations slowly. This is not a myth. Zhang Xueqi's long-term selfstudy life, why the learning effect is good, has a lot to do with the long-term development of the point-to-point rule of the family. He formed his own subjective consciousness, which made me omit a lot of energy.I don't need to do too much supervision work, let alone the platitude of "don't delay what I do today to tomorrow" and "learn for myself, not for others".He will focus on his own goal to complete the given task, who will interfere with him to complete his own will be anxious.The cultivation of this personality is an important harvest for me when he was young. Of course, sometimes this kind of harvest will bring unexpected troubles to parents because of the formation of a fixed thinking of "don't change when you say it is OK". He will push this principle to a very extreme degree, sometimes it appears to be too much: for example, when the family is watching a TV program, suddenly the power is cut off, the children will stop working, whoop, lose their temper.I told him: let's go out for a walk first. When the electricity comes, can we watch it again? "No way!You have to make up for the missing part! " Do you mean to be angry?Where am I from to command the TV station?If we are unreasonable to him, we will resist the anger and reason with him.If you don't understand him, you'll ignore him. If you're annoyed by him, you'll just use the following strategy: a stinking beating. It also shows that everything is divided into two parts. You can't take advantage of both sides.Children's stubborn personality may be good for learning a subject.Stubbornness, to some extent, shows that he is easy to be rigid, but it also proves that his spirit and spirit are sinking and focused in the face of something.However, in contact with society and human relations, the negative impact is also great.I didn't analyze the two sides of his character in time and come up with countermeasures, which is a big lesson.When I think back to what I felt for my children in those days, I sincerely feel that it is very important to treat all kinds of problems in the critical period of children's growth rationally, not because the children are the only ones, but to overindulge and manipulate them unnecessarily. When I see the materials that foreign

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